Category: Relationships

  • Here Comes the Team Again part 6

    Sent, Not Self-Sent Paul was sent, he didn’t commission himself. That’s worth sitting with for a moment, because it challenges an image many of us carry without realising it — Paul the maverick, the lone genius, answering to no one but God. The reality is far more interesting. Paul was the most sent person in…

  • Here Comes the Team Again part 4

    When Teams Break If apostolic teams were only ever a story of triumph, we’d have reason to be suspicious. The New Testament is too honest for that. The previous posts in this series have painted a picture of something remarkable — Paul’s divinely commissioned, gift-diverse, Spirit-formed teams achieving extraordinary things across the Roman Empire. All…

  • Here Comes the Team Again part 3

    How Apostolic Teams Form Nobody applied for a job on Paul’s team. There was no recruitment drive, no interview process, no job description circulated around the churches of Asia Minor. And yet Paul assembled one of the most effective missionary teams in history. How? The answer matters because it challenges almost every assumption we bring…

  • Building confidence in young leaders: 10 strategies

    Raising up young leaders is one of the most important responsibilities of any church or organisation. The next generation of leaders needs more than just skills and knowledge—they need confidence. Without confidence, their potential remains untapped, their influence is limited, and their ability to lead others effectively is hindered. But confidence is not something that…

  • The Power and Necessity of Friendship

    In the complexities and trials of life, nothing stands as a pillar of support quite like a true friend. A friend, in the purest sense, is not just a companion. They are a confidante, a source of comfort, and a beacon of hope during the darkest times. But what does it mean to be a…

  • Mirror Mirror, how social media enslaves everyone in a trap of comparison

    In an era dominated by social media, where platforms like Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter connect us instantly with a vast digital community, the allure of comparison is more prevalent than ever. While these platforms offer a space for self-expression and connection, they also create a trap – the comparison trap. Social media enslaves individuals in…

  • Building a culture of celebration

    In our busy and often challenging lives, it’s easy to get caught up in negativity and forget to celebrate the good things. But cultivating a culture of celebration is essential for our well-being and the health of our communities. It not only uplifts our spirits but also strengthens our resilience and brings us closer together.…

  • 4 Attitudes of transformation

    In the journey of life, we all seek transformation—change that makes us better, stronger, and more aligned with our true purpose. As Christians, our transformation is deeply rooted in our faith and our relationship with God. Four attitudes play a crucial role in this process: Repentance, Confession, Forgiveness, and Humility. 1. Repentance: Continual Change of…

  • Mind Gym: 5 ways you can contribute to the emotional health of others

    1. Do not lie. 2. Be present. Listen as people speak to you. 3. Focus on the positive. 4. Laugh, have fun. 5. Focus on your character not your profile.

  • Bowling Alone: The Rise of Individualism and Its Impact on Community

    In his book “Bowling Alone,” Harvard sociologist Robert Putnam notes that while more people in the United States are going ten-pin bowling than ever before, fewer than ever are joining teams. This phenomenon, which he calls “bowling alone,” is a reflection of a broader trend in which individualism has become increasingly valued over individuality. Putnam’s…