Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the chaos and imperfections in your life? Do you find yourself constantly striving for perfection but falling short? It’s time to shift your focus and embrace a powerful concept: making one thing in your life perfect.
In his famous quote, Jordan Peterson encourages us to:
“make one room in our home as beautiful as possible.” – Jordan Peterson
This simple act can have a profound impact on our mindset and overall well-being. When we create a space that is aesthetically pleasing and harmonious, we invite a sense of order and tranquility into our lives.
But why stop at just one room? The idea of making one thing perfect can extend beyond our physical environment. It can be applied to various aspects of our lives, from our relationships to our personal habits and goals.
In the book of Genesis, we read about how God brought order out of chaos during the creation of the world. This serves as a powerful reminder that order can emerge from even the most formless and empty situations. By focusing on making one thing perfect, we are taking a step towards aligning ourselves with the divine order.
However, it’s important to acknowledge that we can’t do everything perfectly. We are only human, and perfection is an unattainable ideal. But that shouldn’t discourage us from starting somewhere. As the Bible teaches us in Luke, a house divided against itself will fall. We need to choose one area of our lives and commit to making it perfect, without allowing the chaos and destruction of the world to infiltrate it.
So, where do we start? It could be as simple as making a list of the areas in our lives that need improvement and selecting one to focus on. Perhaps it’s conquering doubt, shame, or anxiety. Or maybe it’s breaking free from the grip of individualism or consumerism. Whatever it may be, we need to establish non-negotiable rules and routines that guide our actions and decisions.
Just like a well-kept room in our home, this chosen area of our lives becomes a sanctuary of order and discipline. It becomes a reflection of who we are and what we stand for. As the saying goes, “If you don’t stand for something, you will fall for anything.” By making one thing perfect, we are standing for excellence and personal transformation.
As we progress on our journey of making one thing perfect, we will naturally experience spiritual growth and maturity. I think my own quote beautifully captures this process.
“Spiritual maturity is the creep of kingdom order across our lives.” – Paul Benger
By focusing on perfecting one thing, we are inviting the kingdom of God to permeate every aspect of our existence.
So, whether it’s a room in your house or an area of your life, I encourage you to start somewhere. Commit to making one thing as perfect as you can, exactly as you want it. Embrace the discipline and routine that accompany this pursuit. And watch as personal transformation unfolds before your eyes.
Remember, you are not aiming for perfection in every aspect of your life. Rather, you are harnessing the power of making one thing perfect to create a ripple effect of positive change. So, take that first step today and witness the profound impact it has on your journey towards personal transformation.
6 steps to guide you in this journey of making one thing in your life as perfect as possible:
1. Identify Your Focus Area: Begin by selecting one aspect of your life that you wish to transform. It could be a physical space in your home, a personal habit, a financial aspect, or any area that you believe needs improvement.
2. Set Non-Negotiable Rules: Once you’ve identified your focus area, establish clear, non-negotiable rules for it. Decide what is and isn’t allowed in this space or aspect of your life. This will provide a strong foundation for your pursuit of perfection.
3. Create a Routine: Consistency is key. Develop a routine or set of habits that support your goal of perfection in your chosen area. Establish a rhythm for how you manage, maintain, and improve it.
4. Maintain Order: Think of this endeavor as making one room in your life a “perfect” space. Uphold a rule of life for this area, ensuring that nothing disrupts the order and beauty you’re cultivating.
5. Accept Imperfection Elsewhere: Recognize that it’s impossible to make everything in your life perfect simultaneously. Therefore, it’s essential to accept imperfection in other areas while you focus on your chosen space or aspect.
6. Stay True to Your Vision: This is your chance to create something exactly as you want it. Embrace your vision, and let it guide your actions and decisions in your chosen area.
Paul Benger 